Although we don't like the term MILF, it
is a very popular and acceptable term for
dating older ladies. There are many things
to love about dating older women. They are
smart, beautiful, intelligent, and fun.
They are smart, distinguished, and
attractive.
How do you meet older women? What are the
keys to success in MILF dating? How can
you meet older women?
Don't worry! We are about to dive into all
that and more.
What is a MILF?
MILF
was originally a joke derived from online
memes and movies. Although it was
initially offensive to some people, it has
become an acceptable term and means
something else. Are you confused? Let us
help you understand it.
First, the acronym MILF stands for
"Mom I’d Like to F $%^.". This means that a MILF can be a woman
who has had a child and is interested in
having an intimate relationship with.
However, this definition does not reflect
the meaning of MILF today. It is generally
used to mean a woman older than you are
interested in dating. Both the intimacy
part and the requirement of having
children have been dropped. MILF dating is
now only for older women.
Benefits of Dating Older Women
May bring less drama to your table.
Can be more open to casual dating.
Many men find older women more
attractive.
Often are more educated and have more
life experience to share.
Might be more in tune with what they are
looking for in a man.
May be more financially stable in life.
She has her stuff together financially.
The independence of older women tends to
be greater.
You'll have great conversations.
She won't use you for your seed.
She is less dramatic.
Places to Meet Older Women
You can meet older women in the same
places as younger women when it comes to
dating. There are places and resources
that you may have more luck with. If you
want to broaden your horizons, here are
some options and ideas.
Online Dating Apps
– As we’ve already talked
about, meeting older women online is way
easier because you can find women open
to dating younger guys with a simple
search function. This gets rid of having
to get rejected by lots of older women
in person who aren’t into dating
outside of their age bracket. The most
faster way to date a MILF.
Volunteering Projects
– Many older women love to give
back, especially because they might have
additional spare time from being
established in life. You may be able to
find great options at volunteer
projects. This is also a great way to
show that you’re different than
the other young guys out there.
School Events –
We are NOT recommending that you start
trolling schools to try and get into
MILF dating. That’s just weird.
What we are saying, though, is that if
you happen to have children or have a
legitimate reason to work in school-type
environments and events, keep your eyes
open.
Gym Classes –
Workout classes are an incredible place
to meet older single women who might be
interested in dating younger guys. For
some reasons, people in gyms tend to
gauge age more by how someone looks and
how well they’ve taken care of
their body than just the number. Also,
workout classes give you a great way to
easily strike up a conversation on
common ground.
Professional Organizations – Many older women like to get
connected with their community through
organizations, professional groups, and
community organizations. Places like the
homeowner’s associations, Chamber
of Commerce, professional boards,
advisory councils, etc. are great spots
to start your search.
Grocery Store –
Like we mentioned, older women and MILFs
can be found at the same places you find
younger women. Don’t start
harassing everyone you see in the
produce aisle, but keep your eyes open
for an opportunity to strike up a
conversation with an attractive older
woman who passes the ring check
(we’ll talk about this in the next
section).
MILF Dating Tips
Looking for tips and guidance to make your
MILF dating experience more successful? We
got you covered. These are the top tips to
help you find the right older women for
you.
Let technology do the hard work
It's not normal for society to be open
about MILF dating if we are honest. People
are used to dating people in the same age
group. Is that a bad thing? No! It does
however mean that you might meet women who
don't want to date a younger man. You can
avoid all this awkwardness by connecting
immediately with women who are open and
interested in the idea.
Do not call them MILFs
Many women love to date younger men as it
makes them feel young. They enjoy the
energy you bring to the table. It can be a
problem if you bring up their ages or make
them look older. This could end your
chances of ever dating them. Many women
find the term MILF offensive. They feel
like they are an object. You should treat
them as if they were a woman your age.
Get ready for some baggage
You'll accumulate more baggage the longer
you have been here on Earth. This could
include things such as children, exes,
career problems, and so on. Women who have
been around for a longer time will likely
have more baggage than you. You can be
okay with this. If not, you may want to
continue dating women in your age group.
Do not expect her to pay for everything
Many people searching for
MILF
dating may be looking for a sugar mama.
This is an older woman who provides
financial support for a young man. We
don't judge if that's what your looking
for. However, don't expect every older
lady looking to find a younger man. You
should be ready to pay for your share if
you want traditional dating.
It's fine if they insist on doing so
because they are in a different financial
situation. Never expect them to do so.
Always offer to pay your fair amount and
don't take what they do for you
(financially, or otherwise).
More weight is carried by knightly
courtesies
Older women come from an era when chivalry
(men doing respectable things for women)
was a common trait. While we are not here
to debate gender roles, we can say that
many older women will expect you to do the
things that fall within those traditional
guidelines.
This could include opening her doors,
getting her to her car, taking her seat at
a restaurant or walking along the
street-side sidewalk. These are things
you'll be able to do with older women than
with younger ones.
The Ring Check
It's fine to try to extend MILF dating
beyond the online realms. It's important
to avoid hitting on already-singled women.
This can be done by checking for a ring.
She's already taken if she has a ring on
her left ring finger. You can move on to
the next one.
Do not try to find this out, but just
casually glance at her when you can. This
will help you to identify who is truly
taken. Don't forget, however, that just
because she doesn’t have a ring doesn’t
mean she isn't taken.
When you are dating a mild, be careful of
your children
We all know what Milf means, and it
implies that there will be children at
some point. When dating a milf, it is
crucial to be sensitive to their children.
It doesn't mean you have to give them
gifts, or pretend to be a dad. But it does
mean you have to accept that your milf sex
lover has children. Children can refer to
many things, including busy schedules and
'kid-friendly events', social burdens, and
possibly a father.
If you think it's a good idea for you to
go drunk and look for a booty call at her
house in the middle of the evening, you
won't be dating a millie for very long.
Respect her boundaries and remember that
children are vulnerable and mothers can be
protective. Even if you are in a casual
relationship with the children, it is best
to keep your distance from them.
Be Exciting and Different to Impress Her
A milf will usually look for a younger man
because she wants something different and
more exciting. Maybe she's tired of her
husband, or perhaps she's sick of the
boring relationships she had with her male
friends her age.
No matter the reason, it's your chance to
bring some excitement back to her life. Be
spontaneous and easygoing so your dates
have fun and are full of excitement.
You will be appreciated by her and she
will likely be more attracted to your
partner. If you fall into a routine with a
milf, be careful. It could indicate that
the relationship is ending. You can keep
things interesting by surprising her or
having fun with your casual relationship.
It is not a serious relationship so be
respectful. You will have a great time if
you keep the compliments coming and the
wine flowing.
Do not be another one of Her Children
A milf likely already has a few brats at
home, so don’t be another one.
Respecting the boundaries and time
schedule of an older woman is crucial.
You won't be able to date a milf if you
become a control freak. You need to let
her manage her business. She will be
grateful if you act like a man. She wants
a man who is supportive and confident,
just like any other woman, no matter her
age. These roles will make her happy.
Happy milfs are happy guys, so be willing
to do whatever it takes to ensure she has
what she wants. It can be hard to balance
a life of stability with a young
relationship. The more you are able to
respect each line, the better you will be
at dating milfs. She will likely look
elsewhere for a man if you are always
looking for attention and needy. She
likely already has enough whiners at her
home.
Young men are a target for MILFs.
The most important rule to getting a MILF
is to make her smile. We must remember why
you are seducing a MILF. You are looking
for sex in a relationship with an older
woman.
Young men
make mistakes because they treat MILFs the
same way they would a younger woman. They
lavish praise on her:
"You're so sexy! "
"I love your eyes. "
"You are a remarkable figure. "
Although these comments are very
flattering, she has probably heard them
all before. You might try a subtler
approach.
For example:
"I could have asked anybody to help me,
but I decided I'd give it a shot with this
beautiful woman. "
Although the cheese factor is very high,
it's fine to be a little bit cheesy in
romance. Make a subtle comment and then go
back to normal conversation as if it never
happened.
Gentle touch can be used to slowly make
her smile. If you are trying to stress a
point or laugh, tap the wrist or shoulder.
You can make the interaction sexually
subtly and increase your chances to win
her over.
Ask MILF out on a date
You don't need to spend a lot of money or
do fancy things. The best MILFs have been
seated at the tables of the most renowned
chefs. You'll be assumed that you
don’t have much money, since you're
a younger man.
Ask her out for a drink. You should now be
able to tell if you have chemistry if
you've gone through all the steps.
Avoid traditional settings such as
restaurants and movies if she accepts to
go on a date. You can take her wine
tasting, or to a more sophisticated place.
You want to bring her back to your place
for frisky fun at night. (We do remember
what "F" stands for in MILF, ).
A MILF is a great way to get a lot of
benefits. They are far more skilled in the
bedroom and are less likely to waste time
playing games. Younger women are more
inclined to play games.
MILFs are often well-traveled and
experienced. They also have a better
understanding of life. They are not
interested in games. They jump at any
opportunity to do good.
Be sure to seize the opportunity. You'll
succeed in claiming a MILF.
